Lent

I'm from a universe of excess.  Food is heaped with ladles into deep bowls and upon huge plates.  Drinks are strong, parties are long and only assholes call the cops.  I'm from New Orleans, and today is Mardi Gras Read more

A Girl Needs Her Options

I've been reading all my life.  Literally since I was 3 1/2.  My love affair with words and reading ultimately transferred to a love of writing.  But what if life was different?  What if I didn't have to consider Read more

Give the Dude A Sandwich...

It's just crazy...as big as hip-hop is in our lives and everything, and as much as we love it, we tend to shun people for just wanting to contribute to that culture, you know?  I guarantee you if you Read more

Lay it Bare

When I talk to my girlfriends, one of the biggest complaints they have about dating is seeking honesty.  It seems like such a simple thing.  We talk. You ask me a question, I give an honest answer.  I ask Read more

On the topic of "Common Sense"

No.  I won't read an article with term "Rape Responsibility" in the title.  I've basically gotten the tone of the piece, and I'm in no mood to upset myself with someone else's entitled opinion.  What I've gleaned from the Read more

female rape

On the topic of “Common Sense”

No.  I won’t read an article with term “Rape Responsibility” in the title.  I’ve basically gotten the tone of the piece, and I’m in no mood to upset myself with someone else’s entitled opinion.  What I’ve gleaned from the reactions was that the article was ill-informed and out of touch.  It dares to address the “Fine Line Between Victim Blaming and Common Sense.”  Since I’m an obliging sort, allow me to assist:

Common Sense Fact No. 1 – When a woman is raped, it is because she has encountered a rapist.

Revolutionary concept, no?  What you read about how you are dressed, where you go, how much you had to drink – it’s crap.  This is not to say that we are to disregard our personal safety.  It’s of paramount importance.  But let’s be clear:  Never in life has a normal man been going about his daily life, then said, “Wait! Drunk Girls? I suddenly and inexplicably am overcome with the need to rape.”  He was a rapist when he brushed his teeth that morning, and was simply waiting for his opportunity.

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